Choosing an engagement ring isn’t just about the diamond, it’s about how the whole ring looks and feels on your hand. And while the “best” ring is always the one you love, there are a few style tips that can help you find the most flattering fit for your finger shape, hand size, and personal aesthetic.
At Ethan Lord, we guide you through this in person, so you can try on different proportions, shapes, and settings until it feels just right. (Because yes, that actually matters.)
Here’s a quick guide to some of the best styles for different fingers, and how custom engagement rings can make all the difference.
Engagement Rings for Short Fingers
If you have shorter fingers or smaller hands, look for styles that visually elongate the finger:
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Oval, pear, and marquise cuts help draw the eye vertically
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Thin bands and delicate settings prevent the ring from feeling bulky
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Keep center stones proportional, less is often more when it comes to balance
Custom work allows us to adjust the diamond size, setting height, and band width to fit your proportions perfectly, no need to settle for off-the-shelf.
Engagement Rings for “Fat Fingers” or Wider Hands
For those with wider fingers or larger hands, bolder styles often shine:
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Round, emerald, and cushion cuts all offer great coverage and classic elegance
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Split shanks or three-stone settings help fill the space gracefully
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A slightly thicker band can feel more proportional and secure
It’s all about finding a ring that’s balanced, bold, and true to you. That’s why trying on different styles in person is key, and why designing your own engagement ring is so helpful.
Best Rings for Long, Slender Fingers
Lucky you, most shapes look great on long fingers! But a few styles really shine:
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Princess and round cuts add a nice contrast to length
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Wider bands or double halos add volume without overwhelming
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Unique custom touches (like geometric settings or east-west stones) play well here
What If I’m Not Sure?
That’s what we’re here for. Our team at Ethan Lord will guide you through what looks and feels best, not just based on your hand shape, but your lifestyle, preferences, and love story.
We’ll curate a range of styles for you to try in person, and if nothing feels quite right, we’ll help you build something from scratch. Our custom engagement rings in Chicago are tailored to your proportions and preferences, so everything fits, sparkles, and lasts.